The long distance really hurt her (to this day it still does, every time we part she is really sad for some time). ![]() Shortly after I went home, about 1 year and one month in, she broke up with me. I stayed for three weeks, and we went to universal studios together. Just shy of a year being together, I went to visit her, I kind of figured the guy should make the jump first, and so I went, it was the farthest out of my comfort zone I'd ever gone. She lives west coast of USA, me the East coast of Canada. Eventually she said yes, and we started our LDR. When I told her how I felt, she asked for a little time, she did kind of like me, but our friend from before also had a bit of a crush on me, and so she was worried. I started feeling something for her, and wanted to tell her how I felt.Īs a little backstory, I haven't been in many relationships, and before her, no intimate ones, so I take romantic relationships pretty seriously. I didn't know her very well at first, but she had drawn me a cute picture for my birthday, and we talked for a while. We met through a friend on a game we played called 'Mabinogi'. ![]() I met my now fiancée just over 7 years ago, when I was 21 and she was 19. Well, this'll probably be the least intense, but I'll share anyway. Not sure what was the cause of that specific fight, but it sucked! The worst fight we had was when we actually cussed at each other (the only time we every seriously did) and I got drunk (I'm not a drinker lol) and was crying hysterically over call, it was just a big mess.I don't know how we worked through it, but it was 100% worth it in the end. Sorry if it's not the exact answer to your question, but I think most LDRs have similar issues, especially early on (is it worth it in the end? can I see a future with this person? Is it worth potentially wasting all this time on this person only for them to not be the one? Just doubts that most people will experience). After we first met, there were definitely no more doubts between us, so that was the biggest thing. We see each other once or twice a year only and we recently got engaged, so it turned out great in the end (near-end - still have to close the distance!), but it's definitely been a ride at times. The distance and doubts took a huge hit on our first year, but after a few big fights, we decided to work through it and that it would be worth it in the end. ![]() We were nevermets for the first three years of our relationship and had both previously been in unsuccessful LDRs. We didn't break up, but my fiance and I almost did a few times in the first year we were together. We are still incredibly stable and committed because we choose to support each other and work through things together. My partner and I have both been through periods of depression, we have struggled to find ourselves at times / to connect, we've been sick, we've missed each other terribly, people have died, animals have died since we've been together, but our bond has never wavered. I'm not super experienced when it comes to relationships, but when I think of the term 'ups and downs' that isn't usually as dramatic as 'we're breaking up this week, actually we're okay, no actually we're breaking up' – that to me just sounds like a whole lot of unhealthy drama and immaturity. Most of the time when people break up, they can't fix what happened. I think people can get back together, but they need to recognise what went wrong and actually fix it. There are plenty of break-up stories here, and just like any close-distance relationship, generally when people break-up, that's it. ![]() I just feel like it either works or it doesn't.
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